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当昔日的甜蜜爱情成为过往，当曾经是自己生命一部分的人要成为最熟悉的陌生人，你会痛苦、绝望、不甘，还是勇敢面对，潇洒地转身呢？
(When the former days happy love became passing, when once was oneself life part of people must become the most familiar stranger, you will be pain, despair, are unwilling, or bravely faced, natural turned around?)

TOP1: 处女座 (virgo)
处女座一旦受到爱情的伤害是最难恢复、治愈时间最久的。你如此谨慎挑选的对象，如此小心翼翼维护的感情，可是最终的结果却是以分手告终，怎能甘心？ 但是为了顾及工作的完美，却又无法任自己的情绪尽情释放发泄，于是伤口在心里慢慢发炎，总是隐隐作痛，往往有好长一段时间，会带着无心的躯壳，如同行尸走 肉般的生活。

(The constellation virgo once receives the love the injury is most difficult to restore, the cure time takes a long time. Your so discrete choice object, so cautiously maintains sentiment, but the final result actually is by bids good-bye comes to an end, how can be resigned to? But in order to take into consideration the work perfect, you are actually unable no matter what own mood heartily release gives vent, thereupon the wound slowly becomes inflamed in the heart, always faintly aches, often has long period of time, can bring the unintentionally body, is similar to good-for-nothing's life.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
远离一切可以勾起回忆的地方或情景，搬家或离开这座城市，来个眼不见为净，全新的环境可以让自己有全新的开始。

(Is far away all may cancel the recollection the place or the scene, moves or leaves this city, comes an eye not to see for only, the brand-new environment may let oneself have the brand-new start.)

TOP2: 天秤座 (libra)
天秤座一投入感情便会有极强烈的爱意，当忠贞不渝的爱情憧憬变为泡影时，你将无法忘记这惨痛经历。‘一朝被蛇咬，十年怕草绳’，那道伤痕会影响往后 的恋爱态度，不再轻信异性的承诺，不再轻信爱情的永恒。即便后来接受新的恋情，心底的阴影也会长年挥之不去，有时候在不经意间触景生情，在心底黯然神伤。

(A libra investment sentiment then can have extremely intense love Italy, when is unswerving in loyalty the love looked forward to when becomes the bubble, you will be unable to forget this deeply grieved experiences. ' As soon as faces by the snake is nipped, ten years feared the grass rope ', that scar will be able to affect in the future love manner, no longer readily believed the opposite sex pledge, no longer will readily believe the love the eternal. Even if afterwards accepted the new affection, the moral nature shadow also meets the elder to motion a person to not go, some times in carelessly 触景生情, felt dejected in the moral nature.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
给自己放段长假去远行，到大自然里，放松放松心情，别让悲伤压得自己喘不过气。

(Puts the section long vacation for oneself to take a long journey, to the nature in, relaxes the mood, do not let sad pressure own not gasp for breath.)

TOP3: 巨蟹座 (cancer)
巨蟹座一失恋会顷刻间感觉一无所有。时间、金钱、精力都随着爱情的结束而付诸东流，甚至连朋友也因自己之前对友情的忽略，而冷漠以对。因为不想让家 人担心，只好一个人背负所有的痛。你依然笑着，可是心却牢牢关上了门。为成全家人的期望，你会接受他人的爱，但却永远不会主动付出爱。

(Cancer as soon as is lovelorn can feel in a little while does not have a thing in the world. The time, the money, the energy all 付诸东流 along with the love conclusion, even links the friend also because in front of own to friendship neglecting, but by is indifferently right. Because did not think the transferor person worried, has a person to shoulder all pains. You still are smiling, but the heart actually firmly pass visited. In order to help the family member the expectation, you can accept other people's love, but actually never can pay the love on own initiative.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
把思念和悲伤尽情爆发、释放，肆意碰触那些可勾起回忆、触动情绪的物品或情境，终有一天会伤无可伤，泪无可流。倦了、累了，便也麻木了。

(And sad heartily erupts missing, the release, recklessly bumps touches these to be possible to cancel the recollection, to touch the mood the goods or the situation, will happen one day can injury does not have may injury, the tear does not have may flow. Tired, tired, also was then numb.)

TOP4: 天蝎座 (scorpio)
天蝎座面对失恋打击时，不会愿意向别人诉苦，却会把埋藏在心底深处的创伤报复到自己身上。会用工作，学习来逃避一切，甚至会用嘲讽冷淡的态度来对待新的爱情。那样刻骨铭心的伤痛，极易让你心理发生扭曲，越陷越深，愈演愈烈，最终走向无法自拔的地步。

(Scorpion facing when is lovelorn the attack, cannot be willing to the others to complain, actually can bury retaliates in the moral nature deep place wound on own body. Can use the work, studies evades all, even can use the taunt desolate manner to treat the new love. Such remembers with eternal gratitude the grief, is extremely easy to let your psychology have the distortion, gets deeper and deeper, increasingly fierce, the final trend is unable the situation which extricates oneself.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
学着用另一个角度来看待爱情吧。其实所有的关系，只是让我们更了解自己，并从生命中获得学习跟成长。痛苦使人成长，当你真正觉醒爱的真谛以后，就能不再为情所伤。

(Learn to look at love from another angle. Actually all relations, only are let us understand oneself, and obtains the study from the life with the growth. The pain causes the person to grow, when you truly awaken after the true meaning which loves, can no longer injury for the sentiment.)

TOP5: 牡羊座 (aries)
热情开朗的牡羊表面上与情伤无缘，但当一片执着信任惨遭对方背叛后，会长时间陷入悲痛和愤恨之中。你无法接受背叛，更加无法接受被别人打败。即使一 切不能挽回，也会处处想胜过竞争者，以此来挑衅对方的选择有多差劲。这种强烈的求胜企图心，只会让你更加难以走出被击败的阴影。

(On the warm open and bright ram surface does not have the good fortune with the sentiment wound, but after a piece of rigid trust suffers opposite party to betray, the association president time falls into sorrowful and during resenting. You are unable to accept the betrayal, even more is unable to accept is been defeated by the others. Even if all cannot recall, also can everywhere want to exceed the competitor, provokes opposite party choice by this to have disappointingly. This kind intense strives for victory business center of figure, only can let you go out even more with difficulty the shadow which defeats.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
感情本身出了状况，第三者只是一块试金石，你应该庆幸及早分手，让你拥有一段珍贵的感情财富，并拥有下一个，寻找更适合自己伴侣的机会。祝福对方，将目标转向下一段感情旅程。

(Sentimental itself left the condition, the third party is only touchstone, you should rejoice early bid good-bye, let you have section of precious sentimental wealths, and has next, seeks suits the oneself companion's opportunity. Blessing opposite party, changes the goal the next section of sentimental journey.)

TOP6: 金牛座 (taurus)
当恋人离开金牛时，带走的不仅是你的爱，还有多年的记忆和未来的计划。生根在你内心的固执，怎会让你轻易改变曾经和对方的习惯，重新
拟订并适应没有那人存在的人生？可是若不改变，代价就会是伴着那些记忆和习惯无数次地重复揭开旧伤。

(When the lover leaves Jin Niushi, carries off not only is your love, but also will have many years memory and the future plan. Takes root in your innermost feelings tenacity, how could let you easily change once with opposite party custom, redrafted the life which and adaption that person has not existed? But if does not change, the price can accompany these memories and the custom innumerable inferior places duplicates opened the old wound.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
固执是金牛最大的致命伤。明明不合适，也知道走到尽头了，却无论如何都不肯放手。放下执着的信念，未来的路，其实无限宽广。

(Tenacious is taurus the big mortal wound. Is obviously inappropriate, also knew to the terminus, all has actually not been willing to drop in any event. Will lay down the rigid faith, the future road, infinite will be actually broad.)


TOP7: 狮子座 (leo)

狮子座最不能容忍的就是自己被甩，爱情丢掉了，可是面子更丢不起。你的骄傲不允许自己表现出没了对方就活不下去的惨状，自尊心也在提醒你不要忘记那个甩掉你，践踏你尊严的人，即便多年之后重遇，你仍会怀恨在心，不会给对方好脸色。

(Leo most cannot tolerate is oneself is flung, the love has discarded, but the face cannot lose. You were arrogant do not allow oneself to display appeared and disappeared opposite party could not live the pitiful condition, the self-respect also in reminded you do not forget that threw off you, trampled your dignity person, after even if many years again met, you still could harbor resentment in the heart, could not give the opposite party good complexion.)

情伤疗法 (Sentiment wound therapy)：
骄傲的狮子需要了解的是，爱情跟对错无关，跟失败也无关。并不是争到了就是胜利。重点在于，透过爱情，你更了解对自我的评价是什么。当你真正爱自己时，情伤根本不算什么！

(The arrogant lion needs to understand, the love with to is wrong irrelevant, also has nothing to do with with the defeat. Certainly was not struggles is the victory. Key lies in, the penetration love, you understood to the self- appraisal is any. When you truly love oneself, the sentiment wound simply does not calculate any!)

三个月之内可走出情伤的星座：
(Within three months may go out the sentiment wound the constellation:)

魔羯座 (capricon)

魔羯座对于破灭的感情存有哀愁是在所难免，但现实的他们了解，即使没有爱情，还是要继续生活。所以他们会加倍努力工作，从工作中平衡感情受到的伤害。他们相信，未来的生活仍要继续，成功的喜悦会掩盖伤痛，唯一能做的，仅仅是在往后的日子里，一个人稍稍思念对方。

(Capricon regarding the sentiment which is disillusioned has sorrowfully is unavoidable, but reality they understood, even if does not have the love, or must continue to live. Therefore they can redouble one's efforts the work, the balance sentiment receives the injury from the work. They believed that, future life still will have to continue, the success was joyful can cover the grief, only could do, merely was in the future day, a person slightly missed opposite party.)


双鱼座 (pisces)

双鱼座恋爱失败后会有短暂的伤心失意，不断的自伤、自怜、自怨，完全沉沦在伤感的深渊中。但只要看到迷人的异性，就可以忘掉一切，重新又投入新的恋爱中。

(After Pisces the love defeat can have short sadly is frustrated, the unceasing self-inflicted injury, from pity, from the resentment, completely perishes in the moved abyss. But so long as saw the enchanting opposite sex, may forget all, again invests in the new love.)

双子座 (gemini)

当爱情不再有激情时，双子会认为分手是无奈却又是理智的选择，虽然会伤感一阵子，可是繁忙的工作、愉快的社交，能很快驱散他们的烦恼。

(When the love no longer has the fervor, double sub- can think bids good-bye is helpless actually also is the reason choice, although can the moved period of time, but the busy work, the happy public relations, can very quickly scatter their worry.)

射手座 (sagittarius)

当射手座遭遇爱情的背叛时，愤怒会如火山爆发般激烈。当他们彻底发泄后，会立刻寻找新的恋情，觉得这样才对得起自己。甚至还能反过来祝福曾经的恋人。

(When sagittarius bitter experience love betrayal, the angry meeting like volcanic eruption is intense. After they thoroughly give vent, can seek the new affection immediately, thought like this only then to results in own. Even also could in turn the blessing once lover.)

水瓶座 (aquarius)

水瓶座遇到情变是最容易走出情伤的人，理智的他们，会认为失恋不过是人生的一部分。理性客观的他们，会认为如果自己站在对方的立场，可能也会这么做。如果分手的时后没有彼此伤害，甚至还能和对方保持朋友关系

(Aquarius runs into the person which the sentiment changes is easiest to go out the sentiment wound, reason they, can think is lovelorn is only a life part. Rational objective they, can think if own stand in opposite party standpoint, possibly also can such do. After if bids good-bye time not each other injury, even also can maintain the friend with opposite party to relate)






Please pardon the english. It is directly translated using online translator. LOL!

What the hack. Virgo is first in line. Idiot! If that is the only way out, I think I'd never put that guy down. It is because, even going to work only will remind me of him. Idiot! Unless I get kick out of attachment. LOL!