Relax! I am not emo! =)
People use to tell me "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". Well, television program always show this particular sentence. However, does it let the heart grow fonder or does it give room to wander? Heart always wander when given room to.
People use to tell me "You will start to realise their importance after losing them". Why is it so ironic that we have to lose to realise? Why people don't realise it before losing? Why people don't appreciate it? Is it because we are given therefore we tend to take for granted?
People use to tell me "Treasure when you still have it". Well, some people do not even have it. And if you don't treasure it, the moment you lose it, it might be forever. However, how many treasure when they have it? And how many regret when lost?
People use to tell me "When you love someone, you want them to always be happy". How touching and romantic is that if someone really does everything just to make you happy. I guess it is very hard to give them 24/7 happiness. So, are you happy when we are together?
People use to tell me "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; If they don't they never were". If they really come back to you, I guess you two are really meant to be. What if everyone have the same mentality? Neither will ever pop the question.
People use to tell me "Don't lose someone you love over pride". Is pride that important? How important is it? Why do people always want 'face' and rather be strong headed? But when they realise things are getting out of hand, is there time for them to turn back?
People use to tell me "I can't imagine living my life without you". Isn't it amazing how people says that and the very next day, they are still living their life without the other? And isn't it amazing that they did not realise they live their past few years without them too?
People use to tell me "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken". Since everyone is taken, why do people still want to imitate them? Why do people still care so much about others? Why do people still compare? Why is it so hard to be themselves?
People use to tell me "Beautiful things are never eternal". Yes, the shorter the event, the more memorable and beautiful the thing is. If you are given the thing too often, then you will get sick and tired of it. Gradually, it will never be beautiful again.
One of my friend just got out of love. I guess many people kept telling her to move on and be strong. "Moving on is simple, it is what you leave behind that makes it so difficult". I guess it is always easy to say I want to move on but we can't leave the things behind.
And of course, people will keep telling her that she will meet someone better, giving up was easy, just don't think about it. "Everyone says it is easy, but in reality, getting over you isn't easy at all". It is never easy to get over someone. It take tons of strength and perservance to do so.
A relationship ending is like a death almost. You need to grieve for it, reminice over the good times, grieve for the times you had planned that might not happen anymore.
People use to tell me all these. However, how many did I actually listen and execute?
日等夜等，终于等到了。但发现等了也是白等~