Lately, I had heard a lot of relationship problems from other people. Those that I heard are mainly the unhappy side about their relationship. Well, how often people share about the good times they have with their partner? I admit that I only call on my cousins when I desperately need help. Haha!
I was watching television and I saw this line, “If you love someone, you will always give chance for the relationship to work out.” Seriously, how many of us actually give our partner a chance to make the relationship work out?
Usually, we will just run away from the problem. When you and your partner always quarrel, you will reach a point of very sian and decides to let go this relationship. And the reason is simple, it is because you have no idea what to do about this relationship. And also, you feel that there is no future to this relationship. Or even better, you feel one sided. Isn’t that always normal?
When come to relationship, I always look up to anna and yong hui’s relationship. They are like ‘ideal relationship’ to me. They have been together for about 7 years before marriage. That is so long! They tolerate each other, and give in to each other. Best of all, up to date, after married with 2 kids, they are still very loving. I always wish to have this kind of marriage. Haha!
There is this very close friend of mine. He always complain to me about he and his girlfriend quarreling again. His girlfriend would argue or stare at him and then, he can only keep quiet. Sometimes, from the way he tells me about how he and his girlfriend are heading, I just so want to tell him, “just give her up. you deserve better.”
However, I always fail to say that to him. Sometimes, I will just indirectly hint him about giving up. Then he will start telling me that she is actually very nice and all. He will look at her good points. What I am so amazed is that even though they quarrel like every night, break up is never the thought.
He always hope that the relationship will turn out better. He will give chance, so much chance that sometimes he feel so tired. But that does not stop him from loving her and giving her a chance to reciprocate. Though things does not get better, he isn’t giving her up. His love for her is something which made me feel that he is so strong and powerful.
Well, I believe, one day, everyone will meet the one who can give you unlimited number of chance just to get things work. And I believe, your hard work will be appreciated. If one day, you meet someone you love, give them the chance and opportunity to love you. Don’t give things up easily because some people are hard to come by. Imagine few millions of people and he only lay his eyes on you, give his heart to you. So yes, appreciate it! =)
If you love someone, give them the chance to work things out =)